When the child is 15 years old this year, his mother loves the child and cannot bear the child's suffering. His mother wants to find someone to adopt him and hopes his child can live a better life. It really makes people cry. As expected, the mother in the world.
Why would she be willing to adopt her son? So that's it! She is a single mother of a bright, healthy son. In the early years, due to emotional disputes with the children's father, he divorced later. The divorce was too big a blow to her, leading to her mental problems. Though her condition improved after professional treatment, she still had sequelae. It is said that single mothers are the most difficult mothers in the world. In these years, they have to depend on each other. In the beginning, the father of the child could pay alimony to the child on time every month, but later the father of the child refused to pay alimony for various reasons.
At first, we depended on government subsidies to survive, but elderly parents, small son, expensive medical bills... Amount of living expenses, it is to have to work again, but because sequela is stimulated in epilepsy symptoms, but under the boss dismissed her. Repeated job hunting and repeated dismissal, now she can find fewer and fewer jobs.
Although it is time to go to junior high school, but because of my children insist on taking care of me, so delayed to go to junior high school. Although junior middle school is a nine-year compulsory education, there is no tuition fee, but there is still an expensive material fee. She does not want to bury her talent for learning due to the difficulty of life and financial pressure. My mother often asks herself, how will she afford the high tuition and living expenses of her child when he needs to go to high school or college in a few years? She lay awake nights thinking about this, and often blamed herself for not being able to give her son a basic life, but gradually becoming a burden to his young son.
She also often felt angry, angry at the child that irresponsible father, so many years, no one cared about us, mother and son are each other to support each other forward, each other to encourage each other. Mother and son have been living in the home of grandparents, although the family sympathize with their situation, and give great care, but under the pressure of life, mainly financial pressure, the mother gradually feel some difficulty, some can not go down......
Her child Huang Yu is a particularly intelligent and sensible child, who never laughed at his mother because of her disability, nor felt inferior because of the difficulties of his own family. He worked very hard, and his teachers often praised him for his diligence, saying that he had maturity beyond his age. He has a good relationship with his classmates at school and is ready to help others. He likes to help teachers and friends solve their difficulties. After finishing the day's learning, he would help his mother with the housework. What he often said to his mother was "Mom, my son has grown up, so let me do these things". After hearing this, the mother had mixed feelings. Her son had to sweep the floor at the age of 8 and learn to cook at the age of 10, so that now he can almost undertake all the housework. She saw these heartfelt heartaches.
However, he is still a child, and most of the time, he also has a childlike side. He will invite his classmates to play games at home, and he will play basketball and do sports with his friends on weekends or holidays, so that he is in good health. The child was also kind enough to stop at the stray cats and dogs by the road and give them half of his breakfast. When a child was young, his mother would let him eat even if he did not have to eat. When he grew up, she paid attention to supplement his nutrition. She was afraid that he might catch a cold at night, and she hardly slept and did not let him catch a cold. The mother is most proud of her son's good academic performance and strong learning ability. He has always been one of the top three in the class. His subject is English, and his memory is very good. He also takes an active part in various school activities. I can always see his optimistic, confident and cheerful smiling face.
After careful and careful thinking and preparation, she decided to find a good family for the child and let them adopt him. What drove the mother to make this decision, she thought, was the infinite maternal love in her heart for her child. It was because of love that she felt that she should not frame her child selfishly around her and let her become a burden to him. Because of love, the mother felt it was more important to let go and give her children a better life, not worrying about whether they would have food to eat next or warm clothes in winter; It is because of love that she chooses to let her child have the right to receive better education and give full play to his learning talent. As long as her son can live a happy life, the mother is willing to do anything. Since adoption was the most important decision of her life, she decided to find a good home for him.
Accidental opportunity, she from TV, awareness of overseas adoption, she saw a lot of American families for a variety of reasons to choose to adopt children, and the United States is not only common fruitful living conditions, but also the world first-class education environment, all about overseas adopted children is also very mature, and more convenient to relevant formalities.
Thinking about it, the biggest common problem is language, but she believes that children do not have such problems. My son is smart and intelligent, with strong learning ability and great learning talent. Chinese people start to learn English at an early age, and his English scores are very good, and his memory and expression skills are also very good. She believes that after going abroad, with the help of such a pure English language environment and her own hardworking learning quality, she will be able to master English completely in a short period of time.
The second common question in overseas adoption is adjustment, which she believes will not bother the child. Because of our family, our environment is very difficult, so the child's adaptability is very strong, no matter how difficult conditions he will not say no. He is optimistic and cheerful. He likes making friends and is good at communicating with others. He is extroverted and can make new friends outside. He is kind and capable, will not do anything bad, but can help the new family to do a lot of things, inject vitality into the new family, she believes that the new parents will also like him.
Will this idea with her children and her family communication, hope can reduce the burdens of her son, at the same time reduce the pressure of his grandparents, long live in maternal grandparents home, both mother and son, after all, both to increase economic pressure, and also bear the gossip of the neighbourhood, she and her children don't have the heart to make people inherit the pain. At first, the family disagreed, but later, because of her unstable condition, they did not want to cause trouble to the child, and hoped that the child could have better development and better future, they finally agreed with her plan.
The child grew up in a poor, fatherless environment, and the child is now so old, I can not continue to raise him, her son is all her life, but for now, to find him a good family adopted overseas to receive good education is the best home. She has explained her own situation and the child's situation in detail, and sincerely looking for an American family to adopt her child, to take care of him and help him grow up.
Name: Huang Yu sex: male age: 15
Character: confident, smart, kind
Ability: strong learning ability
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